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一名收破爛的老人不小心劃破了一年輕女子的牛仔褲，因拿不出對方要求的50元賠償，老人下跪十次。

　 老人手裏只有8元零4毛.

　　當記者趕到德外大街高等教育出版社門口發現，一個穿灰色羽絨服的中年婦女正在推搡一名衣著破爛的老人，嘴裏喊著：「趕緊賠錢！」周圍上百名路人圍觀。

　旁邊站著一名20歲左右的女子，藍色牛仔褲腿處被劃開了一條兩三厘米長的口子。被推搡的老人噙著淚水不停地懇求著，手裏捏著一疊毛票，總共8元零4分。

　「不就破一個小口子嗎，至於這樣為難人家嘛。」看著下跪的老人，旁觀路人紛紛勸說「得饒人處且饒人」。面對路人的指責，中年婦女毫不在意，堅決要讓老人賠錢。

　面對「巨額」賠償老人下跪．

　據瞭解，當時這對母女走到高等教育出版社附近的路口處，剛好老人騎三輪車拐彎，車上的鐵絲將年輕女子的褲子剮了一個小口。女子的母親要求老人賠她50元。

無奈之下，老人「撲通」一聲跪下，不想對方絲毫沒有反應，老人連續下跪十次。

　　這一下把圍觀的群眾惹怒了，在附近大廈當保安的武先生憤怒地說：「對待這樣一個年邁的老人，她們真是欺人太甚。」說完，他將口袋裏的23元錢塞在老人手裏。

　　記者試圖採訪這對母女時，該中年女子說：「甭理她。」

　 路人為老人湊錢賠償．

　　在老人懇求和解未果的情況下，中年婦女最終撥通110報警。5點50分左右，德外派出所的民警趕到現場進行調解，但該中年婦女認為賠償的錢不夠，拒絕和解。這時，圍觀群眾自發掏出錢來，一元、兩元、十元……最後湊夠了50元。

　 老人再次向圍觀群眾下跪，並不斷地說：「謝謝，謝謝。」中年女子拿到錢後，拉著女兒一聲不吭離開了
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　　當時圍觀的群眾紛紛表示賠償50元的結果對老人不公平。民警也表示無奈，稱這是民事糾紛，他們只能充當調解人的角色

For the single boy/girl or man/woman out there who are single. Here are some reasons that will make you rethink about the life you have now.
Being single are actually nice and feels good, I will stick with these benefits until the day i will marry, about the age of 25 to 30.

The first benefit of being single is your career will benefit.When a guy is climbing the corporate ladder, he can’t think twice about staying late at the office or hitting the strip club with the boss. Girlfriends demand quality time -- as they should -- but you won’t be able to give it to her if you want that corner office. If you ever hear that the guy in the next cubicle just got engaged, congratulations to you. You’re going to crush that poor sap while he’s out shopping for place cards.As a student, i prefer studies and friendship over couple relationship.

The second benefit is you never need to make plans for two. Happiness means never having to ask permission. The benefits of having a significant other -- the nurturing and sharing and all that other crap -- all go out the window as soon as your buddy asks you to go to Las Vegas and you realize you need to check with your girlfriend first. It’s not just the big trips, but the small ones that rankle most. Want to grab a quick bite or a dozen beers on a whim? Not so fast; she might have something else planned for you already. And it’s unlikely to include lap dances.

The third benefit is you will be healthier.

http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-reasons-to-stay-single_8.html

There's a phrase saying that "inner beauty is more important than outer beauty", but as human, we cannot neglect all our outer beauty. A person with good values is attractive but an attractive outlook is a adding point to our social interaction. Imagine a noble man who is honest and just, wearing an old baggy T-shirt and a short pants attending an wedding ceremony while others wearing neat suit, people will think that he is being disrespectful towards the marrying couple. Your outlook sometimes shows your personality, either through face gesture or body language.

The important tips im giving here is how to make yourself looks more confident. The first tip is to keep your hands out of your pockets. We put our hands in our pockets when we are nervous or uncomfortable. This will makes people think that you are uncomfortable around them and eventually dislike to interact with you. Besides that, putting your hands in your pockets encourages slouching, which is not good. A better solution to this is to keep your hands at your hips, this is a far more confident posture.

Second tip, do not fidget. Fidgeting is a clear sign of nervousness. A man who could not sit still is a person who is tense, worried and certainly not confident. Your hands may be your worst enemy, fight it to keep them still. You may play around with your hands but not in public, keep your hands calm and under control. Moreover, guys stop the rapid leg-vibrating gesture, you do not want to make yourself looks like a dog getting his belly rubbed.

Thirdly, keeps your eyes straight to the front. A person who constantly looks down to the floor shows people that they are nervous and not willing to join into a conversation. And if you are not careful, you may get into this habit and doing it all the time. keep your chin and eyes in front even if you are walking down the streets.

http://www.askmen.com/grooming/project/top-10-ways-to-show-confidence-with-body-language_8.html

当你伤心时，你希望人了解你；
当你快乐时，你却使人哭泣。

Wrote this after thinking about human nature. Self-centered nature of human.

Work hard for every subject despite other subjects are weak

1)Design Fellowship JYOUTH Logo
2)Angel Game (which went on for 1 week and stopped)
3)Fellowship Songs *Important -lyrics and melody
4)Decorate Junior youth's Board (downstairs)
5)Small choir
6)learn piano from jia ying

sidenote: hope this is not another talk-only-plan

Sunday, always feels great on Sunday.
Went to church, sang on stage.

Pastor drove me to visit a patient, a cancer patient.
The patient is 70+ years old.
I went there with pastor and Kar Yee.

Back to church at 3pm.
Arrange books in church's library.
I found many old books.
Even some old textbooks.
Picked up some and read.
Some familiar topics like indices, logarithm and trigonometry.
Old textbooks are super hard to understand and written in Chinese or Japanese.
1970's,80's scholar are real intelligent.

We decided to use more systematically way to record book names.
We decided to use the COMPUTER.

Have to spend sometime in church to label the books, key in the book names.

Came back.
Tired, Blogged.